Life is a complex journey filled with many challenges. One of the hardest experiences is facing criticism or feedback. However, these tough moments can lead to personal growth. In my book, “The War Within Us,” I discuss resilience and how it can help us turn feedback into a chance for change. By accepting these vulnerable moments, we can discover our true potential, start a journey to become better and strive for excellence on a daily basis.

The Role of Feedback in Building Resilience

Sometimes receiving feedback can feel uncomfortable, like a sharp jab. However, it helps us see things about ourselves that we might miss when we reflect alone. If we learn to accept and welcome feedback, it becomes a valuable tool. It helps us build resilience, improves our understanding, and strengthens us from within, allowing us to grow and improve in ways we may not have thought possible.

My Author Journey: Resilience Through Feedback

Writing a book is not just about putting words on a page; it is also a journey of personal growth and self-discovery. Through the first drafts of writing books, I have learned the importance of listening—to others and to my own thoughts. Feedback from friends, readers, and peers has helped me refine my ideas and improve my writing skills. Each critique has guided me through the challenges of writing and deepened my understanding of my craft. Ultimately, this process has enriched the stories I want to tell.

The Power of Feedback for Everyone

What I’ve found interesting is that resilience grows when we are around others who challenge, teach, and inspire us. Getting feedback sets off a cycle of learning that improves our writing, relationships, and work. When we work together to create a welcoming space for open feedback, we build an environment that accepts failure as part of growth and encourages new ideas. This teamwork helps us push our boundaries and fosters a culture of ongoing improvement.

Takeaway Tips/Practical Advice:

Here are some tips and thoughts that I have around feedback, that I thought you’d find helpful:

• Reframe Feedback: View criticism as an opportunity to learn, not a personal attack.
• Ask for It: Proactively seek feedback in one area of your life this week—whether from a mentor, colleague, or friend.
• Reflect on It: Take time to process feedback, identifying what you can act on to grow.

Feedback Through Reviews

Ugh, Reviews, I can hear the collective groan. I am with you.

Just as the insights and opinions of others can influence personal growth, they also play a crucial role in the literary world. Reviews not only serve as a compass for my development as a writer, helping me refine my craft and explore new avenues, but they also provide valuable guidance to potential readers of my books like The War Within Us. If you have read through my book, I would be genuinely eager to hear your thoughts. Your feedback holds the power to inspire and guide not only me but also someone else on their own path of discovery and reflection.

Books That Might Interest You

If you haven’t had the chance to read my book The War Within Us you can get a copy here: [Amazon Link]

If you’ve already grabbed a copy of The War Within Us, I would appreciate you leaving a review, taking 60 seconds to share your thoughts really does make a difference for independent publishers like myself. Simply go to this link to leave your review: The War Within Us Review Link

A book that I have recently started re-reading is a book by a great friend of mine Ikigai-Kan: Feel a Life Worth Living by Nicholas Kemp. It is a great introduction into the philosophy and psychology behind the Japanese concept of ikigai. If you are interested in learning more about Nick’s book you can find it on Amazon here: [Amazon Link]

Looking Forward to the Next Issue

Every piece of feedback we embrace makes us stronger. Whether it’s a conversation, a review, or a self-reflective moment, the lessons we take from it can propel us forward. Keep growing, keep improving, and know that your voice matters to more people than you think.